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Thanks for commenting on God is good.  I know that everyone on this site is going through tough times and that means me also.  My husband was diagnosed with cancer and our financial picture is so high in debt that I was talking to bankruptcy offices and debt help but I will be getting $20K + next year ( it's a long story but it is going to happen in Jan. I believe by faith) then I won't have to go bankrupt and can get back on our feet, even though we were still on our feet if we are in debt it just gives me some hope.  It is not from this site I think this is a great place to pray and vent but I don't think anyone has the extra money to help anyone here.  The most important person to go to in time of need is God ( Christ) I  and my family was in a serious car accident years ago and different people gave us about $12,000 and we got a settlement of about $60,000.  I am not saying that you look to different people to give to you but look to God and he will send someone to help.  I will be praying for you and your family, you should look at the book by Jordan Rubin called the Maker's Diet, he had alot of illnesses and through changing his eating he changed his health.  I also believe in divine healing and my dad was miraculously healed of throat cancer 3 years ago ( he continued to smoke and he had another cancer just recently but we are believing for another miracle) My husband has cancer but he does not smoke or drink but I am going to make sure when he gets over this we are going to eat alot healtier then we have in the past.  Alot of reasons that we are sick has to do with what we eat and sometimes it is not drastic changes just little changes, a little at a time- get some supplements etc.. I've heard a saying, someone said it is expensive to eat right and someone else said yes but you either pay now(for healtier foods) or pay the doctor later when you get sick.  I have nothing to do with this book and I am only telling you to buy it because it has common sense and biblical ways of eating. You can get it at any book store.  If you don't have the money just look at it when you are at the book store and you can get ideas on what changes you have to make.  There are also other books that tell you what is healty to eat and on the internet there are alot of info. If you google Jordan Rubin you can get information for free probably about what is in his book (I know he is into coconut milk, goats milk and yogurt) see if your family feels better after trying that on a regular basis.  Sorry about your sons pain, I am sure that he needs alot of help but be careful he does not get hooked on those pills and they only mask the problem.  Getting healthy is going to take alot of work and finding out what is the reason for the pain and fixing it,and alot a prayer (  When my husband had his car accident I did not let him take any pain medication after he came home from the hospital and I sent him to a place that forced him to work out and get his muscles working again and that was the best thing for him, now that he has cancer he does not take any pain medication, he has some codeine but hasn't needed it, only some numbing stuff ( mouthwash) he doesn't want to take drugs to put him in a fog.  I saw my uncle who fell off a ladder (we were told )and he took many pain pills and then he go M.S. and was bed ridden until he died, it was so awful and I vowed that my husband was not going to go that route when he got sick and I would find ways to make him stronger not weaker.  My daughter who is 20, when she was 19 she got some mysterious numbness and felt weak and the doctors didn't know what it was ( she had problems sleeping also) I just had her sleep with me and would pray all through the night and we watched Christian T.V. we prayed and sang and she was healed-by prayer - what ever it was is gone and she is completely healed and the doctors never did know what it was.  I know her and know it was real and not in her head ( the doctors were saying it may be panic attacks but she is not that type) My mom has a swelling problem and the doctors don't know why- they checked her for cancer and it is negative- she started taking some supplements and the swelling is almost gone ( the doctors still don't know why she is swelling)  Thanks for sharing your struggle with me and I am glad that you liked my blog.  God Bless/In Christ  Pam Holloway 

I just want to say that the Bible says all things work together for good to those who love God and are called according to his purpose ( not sure if exact word because it is from memory) I know we are all in this world and each of us has a set a problems that are unique but trust me there is not a person alive who does not have problems and even though it gets really hard sometimes and God may seem far away, he is only a prayer away.  The richest person in the world has their own set of problems and even though most people on this site have severe financial problems and health problems we have something in common.  First we live in the most blessed country in the world and the poorest person in America is the richest person in most countries.  I have been to third world countries and if you all think you have it rough you have no idea.  We have been taught the truth of God's word  and we have opportunity and the best doctors in the world and even though we may think that our problems are the worst when I get on this site I realize that my problems are tiny compared to others.  That does not give me comfort because I think that everyone's pain breaks God's heart and it should not give me comfort in feeling I don't have it as bad as so and so. I just want you to know that you should not blame God for your troubles but trust him for your solution.  He has one if you will only listen.  Good Night  God Bless/In Christ  Pam